LooKinG foR HappInesS?

Not too long ago, I remember, a friend of mine asked me: "how can u still be happy, joking & fooling around like that when facing such a situation?! I dont know how u did that but I cant stand it anymore..."

It here refers to the situation we both faced-- teenagers fright. Perhaps, the phenomenan of falling in love dragged her into fretfulness... ... or perhaps, galling truth about life frustrates her.
"You're not sad at all, it seems that u dont even care." she said to me once.

To me, there's no point of being grim over what life brings you. But its hard to say that I faced a dilemma with courage without feeling exhausted.

Some asked what's the secret behind my smile and laughter... Well to tell the truth my brain learns to control the movement of muscles and smile centre takes over to create a spontaneous smile~

If you're asking for formula of hapiness... emm ... u ask the wrong person ... ... Coz I really don't know... I juz live a simple life and days after days I try to be more optimistic... not to make myself happy but to overcome sadness, anger, hatred and stress.


There are mornings when I wake up and feel like banging my room door until it crack into pieces. Times when i feel like yelling and vent my angers and frustrations on those who offended me.

Hmm... ... now you know~... I'm juz a normal person and a sinner who is also craving for eternal happiness...
but life isn't that bad...

when you appreciate whatever u have in life,

when you accept one's weaknesses and limitations,
when you understand your parents, family members and best friends' hardship, problems, their hectic life, and care for them,
when you take your time to reflect upon your past,
when you learn the value of silence,
when you be thankful even if you have bad days...
As the old saying goes... Good day gives happiness, bad day gives experience.
There's a lot to learn...

~LIGHT UP UR LIFE~
Let your life lightly dance on the edges of time like dew on the tip of a leaf.

Walk alone, when i'm not alone

I love to break my routine with some subtle changes- positive changes of course! It leads me into having ebullient mood to start a new day and a new me....=)

I always have my friends and family members around me, wherever I go. I love being with them. My appeal is undeniable due to my active, talkative and outgoing behaviour. Lots of interesting, exciting things are very likely coming my way as I'm enjoying my day when I'm with my family and friends. Most of the time, I would try to figure out what I've learn while having fun. But whenever bad things happened, i often fail to get back on track because I have smth in mind but fail to get it out. What does it mean? It means that when i face difficulties I always have negative mindset. I know very well what should I do, and what i shouldn't do...but i didnt put it into practice~ Instead, I walk away, laze around, and started to grumble...Things started to get more and  more freaky...My mum would started to nag and lecture me, my friends started to complaint over my taking-things-for granted attitude.

But I know, yeah I know very very well that they're doing this for me, hoping that I would change~
Looking back, my parents had provided me with lots & lots of care & love. While, my friends had given me an abundance support & encouragement and God gave me those experiences & wisdom.

WOW!!! I then realized that I never walk alone....But whenever trials and tribulations come my way, I prefer to walk alone. I'd rather keep it to myself than share it....
Walking alone always gives me the feeling of independence and that i can take my time to reminisce and to reflect....but I know, when I walk alone, I'm not alone for He's always there walking with me... ...