Not too long ago, I remember, a friend of mine asked me: "how can u still be happy, joking & fooling around like that when facing such a situation?! I dont know how u did that but I cant stand it anymore..."
It here refers to the situation we both faced-- teenagers fright. Perhaps, the phenomenan of falling in love dragged her into fretfulness... ... or perhaps, galling truth about life frustrates her.
"You're not sad at all, it seems that u dont even care." she said to me once.
"You're not sad at all, it seems that u dont even care." she said to me once.
To me, there's no point of being grim over what life brings you. But its hard to say that I faced a dilemma with courage without feeling exhausted.
Some asked what's the secret behind my smile and laughter... Well to tell the truth my brain learns to control the movement of muscles and smile centre takes over to create a spontaneous smile~
If you're asking for formula of hapiness... emm ... u ask the wrong person ... ... Coz I really don't know... I juz live a simple life and days after days I try to be more optimistic... not to make myself happy but to overcome sadness, anger, hatred and stress.
There are mornings when I wake up and feel like banging my room door until it crack into pieces. Times when i feel like yelling and vent my angers and frustrations on those who offended me.
Hmm... ... now you know~... I'm juz a normal person and a sinner who is also craving for eternal happiness...
but life isn't that bad...
when you appreciate whatever u have in life,
when you accept one's weaknesses and limitations,when you understand your parents, family members and best friends' hardship, problems, their hectic life, and care for them,
when you take your time to reflect upon your past,
when you learn the value of silence,
when you be thankful even if you have bad days...
As the old saying goes... Good day gives happiness, bad day gives experience.
There's a lot to learn...
2 comments:
Yeah,It's good to be optimistic. Sometimes I hope to be like you,still can joking and fooling around when met difficulties.People likes you. But, however,when there's a time to be serious,you need to be serious,Angie.That's my advice to you.
Yeah,It's good to be optimistic. Sometimes I hope to be like you,still can joking and fooling around when met difficulties.People likes you. But, however,when there's a time to be serious,you need to be serious,Angie.That's my advice to you
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